Friday, February 15, 2019

Forgiveness....



The good thing about religion is that you can forgive people AND pray for them.

When you've got a very good thing going, and when someone has "issues" regarding a former marriage and unresolved a, b, c, d, e, f, g... you have to protect your own emotional state.

And that's a sign of maturity.


He wonders why I pray for the ex wife, (and she is crazy...)

a)She's a human being

b)she's the mother of your kids

c)without them breaking up we would have never met.   I thank her for introducing us, inadvertently.


He doesn't get it, the anger for her is so overwhelming that it impacts all around us.

So I had to back away.

Send out good thoughts.  He loathes his ex mother in law.  Never met the woman, so I send her good vibes.  It takes no great effort from me to send good thoughts out to someone I do not know, in fact it is easier since I have had no interaction whatsoever.

Have you heard of the studies on SMILING?

Smiling doesn't seem like a particularly complicated act: You feel a happy emotion, the corners of your mouth turn up, your cheeks lift and your eyes crinkle. ... According to many experts, smiling may not only be an outward manifestation of a happy feeling. It may actually be able to cause a happy feeling.


SA Mind
Mind

Smile! It Could Make You Happier

Making an emotional face—or suppressing one—influences your feelings

Charles Darwin first posed the idea that emotional responses influence our feelings in 1872. “The free expression by outward signs of an emotion intensifies it,” he wrote. The esteemed 19th-century psychologist William James went so far as to assert that if a person does not express an emotion, he has not felt it at all. Although few scientists would agree with such a statement today, there is evidence that emotions involve more than just the brain. The face, in particular, appears to play a big role.

https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/smile-it-could-make-you-happier/


What is also helpful is people who make you happy.

"He" has done things that have made me happy, but the divorce thing is too much, you would need hours to know the true depth of their baggage that - at my age - is a bit much for me to deal with.

Am I being selfish? God, no.  I've put in my efforts, just as I have with the access television issues.   A smart older guy guiding someone out of the stormy waters of the end of a marriage is an incredible asset.


But being the "water boy" is not what Joe signed up for, and society  protects seniors for a very good reason: WE ARE SENIORS and we don't have the strength that we had 20 years ago.

Forgiveness, especially for people you do not know who are "in the mix" but out of your sphere, just send a smile and good thoughts.

Let them have the "battle royale" - but I have to go about MY business and when their battle reaches a level where they can be civil, then you won't be the "rebound" for people who are too obsessed with their daily hissing contest, two adults acting like jerks and irresponsible people when, you know what, the kids should come first, not last.

And if their battles are more important than even their own kids, where the fxxx do I fit in?

And that's a quote from someone in our circle, a quote that makes all the sense in the world


to be continued



RIDICULOUS BACHELOR IS JUST A PIECE OF MEAT

'Bachelor' Colton Underwood Says He Left Charity Event Early After He Was Inappropriately Touched

 which reminds me:

THE EDITOR SPEAKS

i was grabbed and touched inappropriately WHILE i was asleep by a man 19 years my junior...he assaulted me again Christmas afternoon in an inappropriate way (came up behind me and tried to ram a brownie down my throat - I spit it out in the sink!) after he kissed me at Mass. on Christmas day...  who am I? Colton Underwood?   Just a piece of meat?

 

Now I KNOW how Michael Marks feels when the guy who allegedly got him his job at the State House put him in a similar state...only, thankfully, we were under the covers at the time!

and not with camera rolling...

 

So let me figure out this twisted logic of this "straight guy" on the down-low with me.  well, let's clarify, I'm not on the "down-low" - he is!

 

Like the ex wife doesn't suspect something peering in the window twice and stalking us???

 

He wasn't like this when we lived together - twice.  He was actually a gentleman and very nice.

 

so on Christmas morning at 9 AM I was ready to walk out the door.  A certain Medford resident phones me while this crisis is going on and I said "I am ready to leave him."

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Then two hours later he kisses me in church in front of the Congregation - and HE'S on the down low!   I had to leave the church and compose myself.

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So as I'm heading home Christmas night he calls because he is worried about me.

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6 am the texts start and he starts fighting again!

JJ, are you keeping detailed notes?  The ex wife may hire you to get ALL the dirt that I am intentionally not putting here!
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So I block him for 12 hours, I unblock him and get this text saying "I care about you" and, like, what am I, living in a Jekyll and Hyde movie.

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I guarantee you had we continued to live together everything would be fine... he needed to get a separate place for when he gets the kids ...you know, no "Daddy has a Roommate" routine

 

Since our favorite bartender thought I was his dad, what's the big deal?  The kids can call me Grandpa (the kids love me and ask when I'm not around)

 

enough of this, right!  There's a certain ex boyfriend that is VERY NICE and no drama!

I'll still be "robbing the cradle" as he's a year younger than me, but at least he's an adult...and still hot!  

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Then last month I took him to the screening of GLASS, bought him dinner, and he wanted to watch the TV at my favorite restaurant so he says to the bartender "I'm not gay, we're just sitting next to each other!"


BY THE WAY, THIS IS NOT A PARODY, BUT THE JOKE IS STILL ON ME

You know how many girlfriends I've been to dinner with - and I am 100 percent homosexual - but just because I am with a woman I don't have to tell the bartender "Oh, by the way, I'm not heterosexual."

"I'm not gay...I just molested my boyfriend while he was asleep, sleeping with me one night...that's all!"    too bad Jo Jo's not alive to hear all the exploits, she would have truly perved on it all!


It was the 'battery-by-brownie" that offended me on Christmas, actually, and he knows why.

 

VERY INAPPROPRIATE BEHAVIOR

But someone please explain to me how he can turn and give me a loving kiss in Church during Oh Come All Ye Faithful and then tell a bartender he's "not gay" because we're sitting together instead of face-to-face.

 

I'm not gay, I'm just experimenting...

 

When we lived together he would emerge from my bedroom at 6 am, and when we didn't I would emerge from his apartment at 6 am, and the editor is leaving him for an EX BOYFRIEND

sure saves on driving all those miles!


An ex boyfriend - Yeah- someone who is comfortable with his sexuality...

(take a screenshot ladies and gentlemen...you know this post won't stay up after a few hours!)

Celebrity

Colton Underwood cites being 'touched inappropriately' as reason for leaving charity event: 'I didn’t sign up to be a piece of meat'

HAYLEY FITZPATRICK,Good Morning America

 






The Bachelor‘s Colton Underwood: ‘I was grabbed and touched inappropriately’ at charity event

Ms FXXXXY KENTUCKY, THE SEQUEL TO THE JENNA TARABELSI STORY


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THIS IS A JOB FOR CONSLUTANT 

ROY BELSON

Kentucky Teacher Accused of Having Drunken Sex with 15-year-old Former Student

 

WHAT IS A CON-SLUTANT?

A SLUT CONSULTANT!!!Ky. Teacher Accused of Having Drunken Sex with Teen

A Kentucky teacher has been arrested and accused of providing a 15-year-old boy with alcohol before having sex with him last year.

Amy Hamilton, 40, turned herself into authorities on Monday. The Harrison County Prosecutor charged her with felony sexual misconduct with a minor. Hamilton, who currently teaches in Oldham County, Kentucky, was also charged with misdemeanor contributing to the delinquency of a minor.



 

Don't Rest In Peace Deacon Bill - Did Government Officials Have ANYTHING to do with The Drug Smuggling?

allegations that it wasn't adult porn the deacon was allegedly being blackmailed over.  AND THAT ALLEGEDLY HE WAS BLACKMAILED TO BRING A GUN INTO THE PRISON.
ALLEGEDLY!

Really.  Adult porn???   Really?

https://boston.cbslocal.com/2011/03/13/tewksbury-deacon-loses-job-over-drug-allegations/

The accusations surprised former Tewksbury selectman Joe Gill, especially since the two worked together on drug prevention programs.

“Knowing Bill knowing what he stood for, it’s not him,” said Gill. 

“He had formed the Tewksbury Drug Abuse Committee, mainly aimed at the young adults of Tewksbury and his mission was trying to steer him on the straight and narrow.”
So far, Emerson is not facing any charges, but along with losing his post at the prison, the Boston Archdiocese is taking away his permission to serve as a deacon.

WHAT A CONFIDENTIAL INFORMANT TOLD THIS 

NEWS OUTLET THAT IT WAS ALLEGEDLY

CHILD PORN

AND ALLEGEDLY THE DEACON WAS A MULE FOR

AT LEAST TWO SERIOUS POLITICAL TYPES!

SO ARE YOU GOING TO BELIEVE THIS
'ANTI DRUG' NONSENSE?

Editor’s note: The following was submitted by the office of Medford Mayor Stephanie M. Burke:
 https://medford.wickedlocal.com/news/20190213/medford-joins-fight-against-opioid-distributors

The City of Medford has entered a public nuisance lawsuit in the United States District Court, District of Massachusetts against those pharmaceutical drug manufacturers, the wholesale drug distributors and others that have, “contributed to the opioid epidemic by sending millions of dollars’ worth of prescription opiates into the community.”

Is Lt Gov Karyn Polito Leaving Husband for Stephanie Muccini-Burke and Moving to Blackstone?

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1,312,670 @ 12:07 pm  550 hits since 7 pm last night
medford information central - back in business!
No one Can Stop us!!!!!

DETENTE!
Republican Karyn and Democrat Stephanie
Allegedly Enjoy Valentine's Night in Blackstone! 

EVERYBODY KNOWS  THE BOOM BOOM BAND ON MCA
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I5qSDMVYPJE

EVERYBODY KNOWS, BAGATELLE ON ABC/DUNHILL
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DSQRMgACGMs




Polito's husband asked Shrewsbury officials to scrub details of their $1.5m house from online database...hey Mr. Polito, doesn't look like it worked out very well, now EVERYBODY KNOWS is not just an old Bagatelle song by Willie Loco Alexander!!!!  (we used to call it Everybody BLXXS but that was in a different lifetime on a planet long ago and far, far away! )  Find the Bagatelle version: 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I5qSDMVYPJE 

Before settling into their new lakeside home in 2016, Lieutenant Governor Karyn Polito’s husband had a request that one town official said he’d never gotten before: That details of their $1.5 million house be scrubbed from an online public database.

Christopher Reidy, Shrewsbury’s principal assessor, said he consulted with the then-town manager. And “probably within a day,” Reidy said, he removed the information, a first in his 10 years with the department.

Read the full story.


HOW MUCH IS STEPHANIE'S BLACKSTONE HOME WORTH?

ENQUIRING MINDS WANT TO KNOW


parody

 

 

 

Actually, I released "Dirty Eddie" as MCA Records refused the naughty lyrics

The B side was even worse!!! or better!!!! depending upon one's point of view!

 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CXHjup8LcKU

 

"Got a double dong on the wall

he don't care at all...

ain't nothing like crystal in heat..

there ain't nothing like crystal in heat...

dirty eddie he don't care at all!


pixx in my mouth

xxss in my mouth

pixx in my mouth

xxss in my mouth

pixx in my mouth

xxss in my mouth

 

 

ROCK & ROLL RIFF #78

 

ONE OF MY ALL-TIME FAVORITES! 




https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I5qSDMVYPJE

 

ROCK & ROLL RIFF #77 WAS EVEN 

 

BETTER, RECORDED AT DIMENSION

 

...THE DEMOS FOR MCA

 

 

 

"YES YES IF YOU REALLY WANT TO TAKE 

 

ME

 

GET YOUR CASSETTE AND TAPE ME"

 

WHICH MIGHT HAVE BEEN WRITTEN

 

FOR YOUR EDITOR AS I MANAGED

 

WILLIE AND SIGNED HIM TO RCA IN 

 

1980 AND ME AND MY EX GIRLFRIEND 

 

USED TO TAPE EVERY CONCERT

 


LOCAL ROCK AND ROLL BANDS

IN THEIR COUNT MCCORD CLOTHES WILLIE SANG IN CONCERT


COUNT V IN LOVE WITH KENT MCCORD FROM 1-ADAM 12


PRETTY FUNNY


COUNT MCCORD INSTEAD OF KENT MCCORD


I DID PROPOSE MARRIAGE TO KENT MCCORD ON THE HOWIE CARR SHOW 1998 OR SOMETHING...A LONG TIME AGO.


AND ROCK WRITER LYNNE LOPATIN MAILED ME AN AUTOGRAPHED PICTURE


AHHHH...THE GOOD OLD DAYS


WHAT A GREAT FXXXXXNG SONG

See You Next Tuesday? At the Medfraud City Council? Feb 19

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Trans-sexual Committee Sub Gum Chicken Chow Mein on 19th February


Thursday, February 14, 2019

My True Valentine, Stephanie Muccini-Burke, Goes After Opioid's - I Should Take Her To Church Some Sunday


W0W - SO ALLEGEDLY THE GOVERNMENT IS NO LONGER DEALING DRUGS TO THE PRISONERS AT THE BILLERICA HOUSE OF CORRECTION!

WHAT A RELIEF! 

Editor’s note: The following was submitted by the office of Medford Mayor Stephanie M. Burke:
 https://medford.wickedlocal.com/news/20190213/medford-joins-fight-against-opioid-distributors

The City of Medford has entered a public nuisance lawsuit in the United States District Court, District of Massachusetts against those pharmaceutical drug manufacturers, the wholesale drug distributors and others that have, “contributed to the opioid epidemic by sending millions of dollars’ worth of prescription opiates into the community.”

The lawsuit was filed against the Sackler family, owners of Purdue Pharmacy, as well as the largest manufacturers, distributers of prescription opioids and their related companies. The suit alleges that these manufacturers put highly addictive, dangerous opioids in the market and represented to medical providers that prospective patients would rarely succumb to drug addiction. The allegations against the distributors is based on a breach of their duties to detect and report suspicious orders of prescription opioids.



The city’s goal is to hold pharmaceutical drug manufacturers and wholesale distributors accountable for failing to do what they were charged with doing under federal law – monitor, identify and report suspicious activity in the size and frequency of opioid shipments to pharmacies and hospitals.



“We are determined to stop this epidemic from further destroying the lives of the people in our community. This lawsuit is one part of the collaborative effort that is needed by municipal, state and federal leaders along with lawmakers, doctors, law enforcement and health officials to join forces to find workable solutions,” said Mayor Stephanie M. Burke.
“Medford engages in systematic efforts to prevent first use of opioids and prevent overdose deaths by acquiring grant funding for prevention that began with establishing the Office of Prevention and Outreach with two city-funded staff to organize community efforts and outreach to our most vulnerable citizens,” added Burke. “From 2000 to 2017, 164 Medford residents lost their lives to an opioid addiction. This loss is beyond tragic because it was preventable. Parents, children, significant others and friends lost a lifetime of experiences and cherished memories. In some families this avoidable tragedy has struck more than once.”
The cost of this epidemic, including treatment, education and law enforcement continues to rise. According to the Massachusetts Department of Public Health, in 2016, 2,069 people lost their lives due to opioid-related overdoses in the state, a 15 percent increase from the prior year.
“The Opioid Epidemic strikes without regard to income, employment, demographics or ethnicity. We are committed to ending this opioid driven epidemic, recoup the costs that the taxpayers have expended, and force those who knowingly profited to pay the costs going forward,” added Attorney Robert Bonsignore. “These legalized drug dealers have made hundreds of billions of dollars at the expense of taxpayers.”
Bonsignore PLLC is an experienced Medford law firm that has worked to hold powerful pharmaceutical industry accountable. Among other governmental entities, the Bonsignore firm also represents Fitchburg Massachusetts and 8 of 10 New Hampshire counties.


 right!  and if you believe that, you don't know the story of Deacon Bill!


Deacon Emerson: I was blackmailed over porn - Lowell Sun Online


www.lowellsun.com/ci_17791901

Apr 7, 2011 - MEDFORD -- William "Bill" Emerson, a popular Tewksbury church deacon, allegedly admitted to investigators he smuggled drugs into the Cambridge and Billerica jails because he was being blackmailed by an inmate who threatened to expose the church leader's secret. When investigators ...
Mar 6, 2018 - TEWKSBURY - William R. Emerson, age 74, a lifelong servant of God and well known member of the Tewksbury community, died peacefully on ...
Mar 13, 2011 - William EmersonWilliam Emerson has been let go by the Boston Archdiocese ... Most know William Emerson as “Deacon Bill” for his role at St.
Feb 24, 2012 - William Emerson, 67, known has "Deacon Bill" to many St. William parishioners, admitted to sufficient facts on three charges of delivering drugs ...